“I think that children and young people have enough to deal with just growing up – hormones, socialising, and all the stuff that comes with growing up. But to have a serious illness or bereavement in those times can feel very isolating. The work we do [at the Hospice] gives them the space to be angry, sad, to cry, to play – and to be able to be themselves so they can prepare for the rest of their day.
If you’ve got a household where the house has become a medical setting, that must be difficult as well. It can be exhausting trying to maintain a sense of normality in what is not normal. We make a difference to young people by offering them support – so they can have the tools to be able to manage through difficult times.
Our volunteers all have very warm personalities, and they’re experienced with working with children and have their training with us. It’s about engaging the child, empowering them in their own journey, and finding that connection.
I recently had my first pony day [when the children we support ride ponies together and make crafts]. I’d known that it was valuable, but I don’t think I appreciated the impact it has on the children. It is such a wonderful feeling to be able to see families talking to each other, the children bonding and making friends. Making connections with people in similar situations is very beneficial.
Our work can have a powerful impact not only for children, but also for their parents. Some of my work is about reassuring parents that they are doing okay, and their children are getting what they need. When so much is going on, knowing there’s an extra pair of eyes on your children is reassuring. It helps parents with what they’re going through and can enable them to be more resilient for their child.”
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